It is most often associated with toddlers, but adults can experience it too.
With the right strategies, separation anxiety can be reduced with care and patience.
The Basics of Separation Anxiety
It often appears in childhood but can also occur in adults due to past trauma.
It can manifest in several forms, including:
- Emotional breakdowns when apart
- Fear of being alone
- Feeling sick due to worry
Why It Happens
There are many reasons someone may develop separation anxiety.
Contributing factors can be:
- Moving to a new place
- Divorce or separation in the family
- Overprotective parenting
- Mental health disorders
Spotting the Signs
Early detection of separation anxiety can help in preventing it from worsening.
Be mindful of:
- Frequent crying when someone leaves
- Worrying excessively about loved ones’ safety
- Nightmares about separation
Helping Kids Cope with Separation
Supporting children through separation anxiety requires clear communication and structure.
Strategies to help include:
- Create a goodbye ritual
- Gradually increase time apart
- Encourage self-soothing skills
- Build trust through transparency
How Adults Can Cope with Separation Anxiety
It's important not to ignore the symptoms here and seek help, self-awareness, or therapeutic tools.
Helpful actions to take:
- Exploring CBT or talk therapy
- Practicing grounding exercises
- Staying socially connected
- Identifying negative thought patterns
When to Seek Professional Help
Professional guidance can offer effective solutions.
Red flags to consider:
- Constant worry about loved ones
- Ongoing panic attacks
- Refusing to engage in normal life
Support and Hope
With understanding, patience, and the right support, people of all ages can learn to feel more secure.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help.